RESPECT

REPECT

Respect seems to be a lost art

So much “candor” flies about,

Disguise for guile, which hurts.

No one walks in another’s shoes

Any more. No one pays his dues.

What ever happened to respect?

To respect another is to affirm,

And one affirmed returns in spades –

So much better than sticks and stones,

So much easier on one’s old bones –

Not necesarilly the easiest route,

But it is the smarter one.

Respect. The hallmark of the human,

Distinguishing him from other species –

Or so the human thinks. Show respect,

Save yourself the anguish of rebutttal,

And perhaps self hate. Anger never solves.

You may find peace, and even make a friend.

Respect, and never need to make a retraction.

Respect, it is the Golden Rule in action.

                             –H. W. Bryce

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Forget Me Not

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FORGET ME NOT

H. W. Bryce

It’s said the knight in armour
Picked the flower for his love;
He did to prove his ardour,
But he wasn’t any dove,
For his armour weighed him down
Into the river though he fought,
He tossed the posy as he drown,
Crying please forget me not!

Weedy little flower, perky purple or pale blue,
You stand for memory and precious love so true,
Your petals five are symbols showing that you care,
Your golden heart a sign of love willingly laid bare.

Five pretty little petals,
Held by a heart of gold;
One petal stands for true love,
As beauteous as the dove;
Another is devotion,
Embracing love’s emotion;
A third is hope to help you cope,
A fourth is caring care,
With courage to be there,
While number five is memory
To honor you and me.

Chorus:
Forget-me-not, Forget-me-not,
Pretty blue and splendid, little flower.
Forget-me-not, Forget-me-not,
Remembrance is your power.

And while you may be going,
Your spirit lives with me.
Our memories are as beauteous
As any living tree.
So I promise this to you,
With everything I’ve got,
That I’ll be true dear,
That I’ll forget you not.

The whole is like a star,
The symbol of a dream.
It stands for love that flows,
As does the laughing stream.
So wear the little flower,
The wee forget-me-not,
It is the flower of remembrance
And love’s forever-ever knot.

For it is love, remember-ance,
A forever-ever knot.
The flower of remember-ance,
The wee forget-me-not.

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LIFE ON THE SCRAPHEAP

LIFE ON THE SCRAPHEAP

H. W. Bryce

To all who are stricken with disease

There she sits, yet sleek in her design,

Marred some say by life’s odd scrape and bump

Looking sad though still with life within

Trying to cope with life upon the dump

Once I raced the best of them, she sighed,

I was a winner among the greats

Now that I’m older they think I’m through

And they throw me on the old scrapheap

Life upon the scrapheap ain’t so grand

In this place there’s nothing much to do

People come and shake their heads

And whisper things like poor old you

It doesn’t help, the sympathy,

It doesn’t bring me back.

I wish I could re-start again

I’d beat you on the track.

There she sits with life that’s still within

Without a way to play life’s game again,

With thoughts no use though thoughts run deep,

It cuts cross-grain, life on the old scrapheap.

Alas, she sighs, I see you there,

I see you want to help.

If only I could speak again

You and I’d elope!

And I stand beside, I cannot hide,

As I deeply weep for her within

That fate and she had to collide

And land her in the scrapheap bin.

I turn and go with a heavy sigh

For our heady days that run so deep,

I rue the day they towed her away

And dumped her on that old scrapheap.

— REMEMBERING ANN

This poem is from page 94 in CHASING A BUTTERFLY. I am posting it here because January is Alzheimer’s Awareness Month.

Therefore, I will donate 20% of all sales to the Alzheimer Society.

CHASING A BUTTERFLY is available at:

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Chasing-Butterfly-H-W-B…/…/1460299345

Friesen Press: https://books.friesenpress.com/…/H.-W.-Bryce-Chasing-a-Butt…

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It’s All About Cats…

KITTY CAT WAS THERE

H. W. Bryce

She tried to sit upon the couch–
But Kitty cat was there.
She tried to sit her down to eat–
But Kitty cat was there.
She took a stroll and tried to think–
But Kitty cat was there.
She went from dining room to kitchen sink
And from the sink into her den–
And Kitty cat was there.

She worked and then she headed for
Her favourite easy chair,
But wouldn’t you just know? 
Yes you know,
Kitty cat was there!
Come end of day and tired out,
She tried to go to bed,
And bless my soul, 
Of course, you know,
Kitty cat was there!

Should she despair?
Is this a something to repair?
I’m thinking not;
Just pick a spot
And worry not,
Kitty cat will first be there!

So she cuddles up with Kitty cat,
For you cannot make a cat to scat,
For truth be told that in the end,
Kitty cat’s your friend.
— —

For you cat lovers. This kitty cat – Mr. Cougar – was my Ann’s cat. He’s mine now (he said proudly, but really, I am his – you know cats).

As most of you know, Ann suffered through Alzheimer’s, and this is Alzheimer’s Awareness month. You also know about pet therapy. When you visit, take your pet along – pre-approved, of course.

“Kitty Cat Was There” is from my book “Chasing a Butterfly,” which I wrote during those Alzheimer’s days.

So, During January, I am donating 20% of all sales to the Alzheimer’s Society to help fight this epidemic.

You can order your copy of Chasing a Butterfly: A journey in poems of love and loss to acceptance, via

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Chasing-Butterfly-H-W-B…/…/1460299345

Friesen Press: https://books.friesenpress.com/…/H.-W.-Bryce-Chasing-a-Butt…

It makes a great gift for Alzheimer’s families and friends.

Thank you.

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This Story Must Be Told

H. W. Bryce

This story must be told
Of a lady who lived so bold,
Until the day she was laid so low
By a sneaky, nasty blow.
She fought so hard, she was so game,
But the alien attack she could not tame.

She was brave right to the end,
To the alien attack she refused to bend,
For the alien sold her a pack of lies
And the alien had her chasing butterflies.

So the lady got mad, he’d raised her ire,
She shouted and screamed, she was on fire
To banish that alien, even struck out,
Got face to face, spat her venom like gout.

Next minute, don’t you know,
She was calm, on an even flow.
Something caught her fancy then,
And she giggled till I don’t know when.

Come imminent setting of the sun
Our lady was up and on the run,
She had places to go, people to see.
For some strange reason, she didn’t need me.

End of day, she had a little moment of silly play,
Like she knew that in life you have to make hay,
Then she fought and she kicked, she even played dead
For the whole time I tried to get her into her bed.

Life went on in such a way, day after tiring day,
She fought for her Self, trying to make Her stay.
Then one night, she kissed my lips and said good night,
Went to sleep, and then, finally, she was all right.

This is a reposting because this is January, and January is Alzheimer’s Awareness Month.
You can help fight this dread epidemic of a disease. For every book you buy, I will contribute 20% of the price to the Alzheimer’s Society.
You can order your copy of Chasing a Butterfly: A journey in poems of love and loss to acceptance, via
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Chasing-Butterfly-H-W-Bryce/dp/1460299345
Friesen Press: https://books.friesenpress.com/store/title/119734000015361954/H.-W.-Bryce-Chasing-a-Butterfly

Thank you.

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LOOK AWAY , but…

H. W. Bryce

You look away for one minute
And the whole world changes.
And things aren’t what they used to be;
Things aren’t where they should be,
People are neither where they were
Nor doing what they used to do.
It is strangely disorienting.

Some twisted fate in the
Time continuum that left me behind
Has skewed the space I’m in,
Stirred the pot, changed the meanings,
Hardened the palette, altered
The colours, and left me standing
In a dour cloak of black and white
Where the grey ought to be.

Was it me? Did I black out? Why
Did the world go on when I looked away?
What was the rush, what need 
Was there there? What troubles
Did it elude, what trouble did it
Stir? Why do I feel I have entered
A worm hole? Which way is out?
Why oh why did I look away?

Ah, well! Best keep my eye on the ball.

Else the one in time’s square will
Take it all with it as it crashes down
Upon the old year and opens the
Doorway to a strange new world
And intruduces the new kid in diapers.
And what has he to teach us, pray tell?

Oh, to keep up with the Times and
Not wait for old news to become 
New news again. Must find a way 
To keep current; must make time,

But not borrow, for borrowed time
Can never be made up. So be brave, 
My boy, be brave. March on! March on!

I will do my best. I will do my bit.
Happy is the happy one who
Digs in and does. I’ll do.

Finding personal peace in a turbulent world,
That is my quest as I focus my eye.
When this year’s curtain falls and a new one
Opens up, I will not turn away.
I will not turn away.
I WILL CATCH THE BALL.

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Merry Christmas

Wishing all my friends the best Christmas ever.

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